Don't focus on goals

 It's good to set goals,in order to be sucessful,but focusing on them is a recipe for failure. 

To focus means to direct your energy toward something. Yet, we must understand this: a goal is nothing more than a desired outcome — it begins as just a thought, an idea, a vision. Success, however, is not in the desire itself; it is found in the achievement of that desire. And achievement is always the result of one thing — the process.

This is why focus should never be on the goal itself, but on the process that leads to it. The process is what requires your energy. The process is what shapes you, grows you, and transforms your potential into reality.

That being said, setting goals is still very important. Why? Because having a desire means that you already carry the energy to pursue it. A goal reveals where your energy naturally wants to flow. But here’s the truth: you cannot focus on anything if you have no goal — without a target, energy has no direction.

However, focusing too much on the goal — instead of the process — can be harmful. It creates inner tension, like stomach acids attacking an empty stomach because there is no food to digest. In the same way, having strong desire without a clear process creates stress — your own energy begins to torment you.

This is the silent struggle many people face. Life itself is not always as hard as it seems — but people suffer because they pour energy into dreams they have no path to reach. They are burdened by their own ungrounded ambition.

So here is the wisdom:
Before you chase any goal, understand the process that will lead to it.
If there is no visible path, pause. If the journey is not clear, wait. It is better to walk on the ground than to fly with no wings.

In simple terms:
Focus only on what exists, so you can eventually achieve what doesn’t.

Life is too short to waste time chasing shadows.
Spend your energy on what is in front of you.
What is meant for you will show itself in time. Until then, be present. Be grounded. Be in process.