Everything starts as a lie

 A lie is like a seed, and just like any other seeds, It's meant to be planted so that it produces some more seeds of it's kind. 

But unfortunately we have a lot of bad farmers, who don't know the difference between the market and the farm. They take the seeds, instead of  the harvest to the market.

So how is that a problem?, isn't the seeds look the same? Well at the market they consider quantity, there's a scale, it's the one that determines how much value you earn for yourself. The lower the weight,the less you get from the market. 

Therefore a good farmer goes to the farm first, where only the quality of the seed matters, and has all the time to do anything that is necessary to make the seed multiply till he gets the quantity he needs.

The market is the society, and the people around you, therefore it's not really about what you do/say to them, but how much you get from them. They will always weigh you before they can assign any value to you, and the only things they can do is either to reject or accept you. 

The problem begins when you are not happy with rejection, but instead of going back to the farm, you stick around the market, you put yourself on the scale, to cover up for the weight of your seeds. That puts more burden on you because you need to be there every time  time your seeds go to the scale.

A lie can either make you, or break you, if it's a single seed, keep it to yourself, It's called a dream, allow it to germinate and multiply, so that when it goes to the market, you get the value you desire.